February 17th 2008---- I got a text message from a girl I had met about 5 or 6 years prior. I had not heard from her in years until I got this text from her. It was one of those drunk texts, something that im guilty of all the time. The last I knew, she was living in Fresno working for Home Depot and also for Hooters. The text said that she was in San Jose at the oldies concert and that she was texting to see if that was still my #. Texts went back and forth that night until she supposedly passed out from drinking too much. She text me in the morning apologizing for anything that may have offended me, obviously it didnt offend me but made me curious to know why of all people in her phone, why she was texting me while drunk. A few days later I decided to call her and we instantly clicked on the phone. We started talking on a more regular basis. Texts during the day at work and then phone conversations at night. March 5th 2008----- My birthday, she texts me wishing me a happy birthday as Im driving down to LA. I tell her that when I get back to San Jose we would hang out. I told her that I would even drive to LB to see her. LB is not Long Beach, its Los Banos. I ask her whats to do in LB......she said each other. This is when I thought to myself, WE think alike. The conversations kept on a consistent basis. March 25th 2008---- She texts me saying "Youre hella cool, I like u". Thats when I knew there was a GOOD connection between the 2 of us. Now we started talking on the phone EVERY single day. Good thing for nights and weekends free on my cell phone. I hadnt talked like this to someone since I was in HS. April 5th 2008---- She texts me saying " On the real, I like u! Honestly I think you and I could be something special, but the reason Ive been holding back is cause Im scared and affraid of being hurt" At this point I had to try and figure out what was she afraid of, how she had been hurt in the past and why she couldnt open up and tell me. She goes on to say that "You have swept me off my feet, without really even doing anything. I want to get to know you and take things slow" (I had the same feeling, I had not felt this way towards someone in a VERY long time, so I agreed to take things slow as well) I did not want to let her go knowing how I felt about her. That night she tells me, Im going to come see you in the morning. I have this giddy feeling in me, she is going to come see me. (you must know that to this point, we have not had a first date, we have only built this relationship based on phone conversations. But everything she said, we agreed on, we were on the same page.....) April 7th 2008---- Then all of a sudden she starts ignoring my calls, doesnt respond to text messages. I dont know if something is wrong and the worst possible scenarios are running thru my head. I call and leave messages, no response. I text....no response.....I call...no response. This goes on for a few days....still no response. Finally I get a text from her "this is her friend, she is in the hospital" but that was all I got. Another day passes and believe me I sent so many texts to her, with no response. Finally I get another message, again from her friend. "wow you do know alot about her in the 2 months youve been talking to her, she doesnt open up to just anybody. she dont want any visitors!!!" April 10th 2008---- I finally get a call from her saying that she was in the hospital, she was having trouble breathing. I come to find out she suffers from asthma. And she was having an attack, so bad they took her to the hospital. | 
